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Class of '65 News


Gary D. Benigar
1999

Janet K. Allen-Coleman
2000
Dwayne Carter
Dwayne Carter
1977
Bob Gregory
Robert A. Gregory
2007

Don R. Harkey
1965

Greg Hill

Melanie M. Hill

Sherry K. Kirk

William R. Klahr
1968

James H. Lahmeyer
1948-2006

Carolyn S. Lazarro
Steve Lehmer
R. Steve Lehmer
1947 - 2007
Norma Lowe
Norma Lowe-Terrell
1980

Tom C. McGuire

Donald W. Meydag
1996
Bucky Myers
William K. "Bucky" Myers, Jr.
2004

John E. Nelson

Wayne Ortloff
1964

Rusty F. Porter

Don Quick

Paul D. Quick
James Rush
James R. Rush, Jr.
March, 2006

Allen L. Rutledge
1997
Tucky Saint
V R "Tucky" Saint-Roger
1948-2007
Toby Sanders
Toby Sanders

Larry R. Stevenson
John R. Stockdale
1947-1968

Ronnie L. Taylor
1948 - 2005

Jack R. Tidd, Jr.
1972

Sherry Tyler-Vance
Kelly Vance
Kelly K. Vance
1947-2006

Fred L. Whiles, Jr.
1947-1968
Linda Winters
Linda Winters
1947-2003

 

 

 

 

Sherry Tyler

Flight Attendant Sherry Vance Dies

5/27/1990 Sherry Lynn Tyler-Vance, flight attendant for American Airlines, died Thursday in a Tulsa hospital of cancer.  She was 42.

Mrs. Vance was the wife of Tulsa policeman Kelly Vance, who directed CrimeStoppers for several years.  Services were Saturday in the First United Methodist Church in Claremore.

Mrs. Vance was a 1965 graduate of Nathan Hale High School, where she was active in the Girls Auxiliary, the Rainbows and the Girl Scouts. She was also involved in the school's thespian group and the Speaker's Bureau Club.

She attended Oklahoma State University where she was runner-up
in the Miss OSU Pageant. She worked 20 years as a flight attendant, and received the professional flight attendant award in 1986 and 1987.

In addition to her husband, survivors include three sons, a daughter, her brothers, Merle and Harlan Tyler, her sister, Karen Tyler, mother
and stepfather, Doris and Monroe Sumter.

 

Steve Lehmer

Robert Steven LEHMER, 60, was born May 19, 1947 in Pittsburg, KS, to Robert Leroy Lehmer and Alaine (Lucas) Lehmer.  He died Thursday, August 16, 2007 at his home in Pryor.

Steve was raised in Tulsa and graduated from Nathan Hale High School in 1965.

He served 4 years in the Air Force specializing in Photo Intelligence before graduating from Northeastern State University with a Bachelor of Arts in Education.

Steve was an accomplished actor. He performed with his entire family at the Tulsa Spotlight Theater.  He appeared on the nationally televised show Ted Mack & the Original Amateur Hour in 1968, winning 2 times. While performing with what was then known as the Tulsa Little Theater, Steve played leading roles in Li'l Abner, West Side Story, Carousel, and The Fantastiks. He was in Discoveryland's production of Oklahoma for several seasons.  He performed with Vicki Lawrence in Hello, Dolly and has also performed with Bob Hope.

Steve loved acting and singing, but was most proud of his 2 children. He is survived by: a son, a daughter, 2 granddaughters, 2 sisters, 4 nephews, and his step father.

He was preceded in death by his parents. Memorial service will be held 2p.m., Sunday, September 16, 2007 at Will Rogers United Methodist Church in Tulsa, OK.
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Bob Gregory

Robert Allen "Bob" GREGORY, 60, of Tulsa, died Tuesday, June 19, 2007 in Sioux Falls, SD, after a courageous battle with cancer.

Bob was born to Floyd and Margaret (Ellis) Gregory, on August 13, 1946, they preceded him in death. He graduated from Nathan Hale High School in 1965.

Stationed at Chandler Air Force Base, MN, Bob met his wife, Patricia Ruiter and they were married on September 13, 1968.   Bob worked in Chandler, for 29 years and was active in civic organizations and in the Reformed Church.

Grateful for having shared his life are wife, two sons and a daughter, 3 grandchildren, a brother, two sisters, and numerous extended family and friends. He touched the lives of many people with his great sense of humor and positive spirit and will be greatly missed.

 

Gary Desmond Benigar, 52, died Wednesday. Born and raised in Tulsa, he graduated from Nathan Hale High School in 1965 [and] received his Master's degree at OSU in 1969.

He began his career with ONG, coming to Claremore in 1988 as the manager of that office. He married Hoytanna L. Rumsey on February 8, 1992. Survivors include his wife, his mother, four sons and 10 grandchildren. His father, Garland Benigar preceded him.

~ Tulsa World 5/14/1999

 

Tulsa World; page A12 ~ March 12, 2007

 

Janet Kay Allen-Coleman, 53, a retired manager of Sabre, died Tuesday, October 31, 2000 in Arlington, Texas after a courageous eleven year battle with cancer.  She is the daughter of Bill Allen and the late Opal Allen.

Janet graduated from The University of Texas at Arlington.  She held several managerial positions within the information systems departments

including the following companies: Sabre, MCI, The Associates, Citizens Telecom and nine years with Lockheed.

She was a member of Trinity United Methodist Church in Arlington for 27 years and recently of Eastern Hills United Methodist Church in Fort Worth. Janet enjoyed traveling, gardening, reading and spending time with family.

The family would like to extend their sincere thanks to Dr. George Blumenschein and the entire staff at the Arlington Cancer Center, as well as a special thanks to VITAS Hospice.

Survivors include her husband of 34 years, George Coleman, a daughter, her father, a brother and sister, a nephew, her mother-in-law and numerous cousins.

 

 Kelly Vance

Rites set for retired police officer,
Crime Stoppers pioneer Kelly Vance

Tulsa World by Staff Reports  6/9/2006

CLAREMORE -- Kelly Kenneth Vance, a retired police officer who pioneered the Tulsa Police Department's Crime Stoppers program, died Tuesday. He was 59.

A memorial service will be held at 2 p.m. Friday at the First United Methodist Church in Claremore under the direction of Rice Funeral Home.

Vance was born May 31, 1947, in Dubuque, Iowa, to Robert and Imogene Vance. The family moved to Dallas when he was young and moved again in the early 1960s to Tulsa, where he graduated from Hale High School in 1965. He played football for the University of Arkansas and later graduated from Bartlesville Wesleyan College with a degree in human resource management.

Vance joined the Tulsa Police Department in 1970. During 22 years there, he received two department commendations and the department's Lifesaving Award.

The commendations were for serving on the department's Honor Guard and for pioneering the Crime Stoppers program. He also organized the Oklahoma Crime Stoppers Association.

Vance also was instrumental in helping form the Police Department's Mounted Patrol Unit, for which he was a unit supervisor.

After retiring from the Tulsa Police Department, Vance was an undersheriff in the Rogers County Sheriff's Office and later was a criminal justice consultant for the Oklahoma Department of Corrections.

He had been a scoutmaster and district commissioner of the Boy Scouts of America and had been honored with the Scouts' Silver Beaver Award. Vance also was a member of Leadership Claremore.

His first wife, Sherry Vance, died in 1990. He married Debbie Vance in 1996.

In addition to his wife, Vance is survived by five children, a sister, two brothers, and six grandchildren.

Friends are making memorial contributions to the Indian Nations Council of the Boy Scouts of America.

 

James Henry Lahmeyer, 58 years, business owner of Lahmeyer Kart Shop, in business for 34 years, avid fisherman and bowler, was taken from his beloved family due to illness.  Loving husband, father, and grandfather, he will be missed by all. Surviving are his wife, a son and daughter, 3 grandsons, a granddaughter, his parents, 7 sisters and 1 brother.  Interment will be at Tulsa's Rose Hill Cemetery.

 


Fred L. Whiles, Jr.

PFC - E3 - Army - Selective Service
4th Infantry Division
20 year old Single, Caucasian, Male
Born on Aug 27, 1947
From TULSA, OKLAHOMA
His tour of duty began on Apr 05, 1968
Casualty was on May 09, 1968
in KONTUM, SOUTH VIETNAM

*information provided by Vietnam Veterans Memorial web site

Post or read remembrances of Fred on the Vietnam Memorial Fund web site

Post or read remembrances about Fred on the The Vietnam Veterans Memorial site
You will have to do a name search at this web site - no direct link to his page available
 

 

John R. Stockdale

SP5 - E5 - Army - Regular
Americal
21 year old Single, Caucasian, Male
Born on Nov 15, 1946
From TULSA, OKLAHOMA
His tour of duty began on Dec 06, 1967
Casualty was on Jul 10, 1968
in QUANG NAM, SOUTH VIETNAM

*information provided by Vietnam Veterans Memorial web site

Post or read remembrances about John on the Vietnam Memorial Fund web site

Post or read remembrances about John on the The Vietnam Veterans Memorial site
You will have to do a name search at this web site - no direct link to his page available

 

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